I am dating (I think! Sometimes it's hard to tell if we are or not!) an ENTJ girl.
She is a workaholic and travels a lot for work. I don't hear much from her for days on end. She works all day then collapses exhausted into bed. We'll exchange a couple of texts, that's all ...
When she's away, it feels like I'm 'out of sight, out of mind'. However, when she gets back, she focuses on my 100%.
I question if we actually are dating because she's not very affectionate -- but then she'll suddenly give me a kiss -- and then go back to being not very affectionate. Things are going very slowly on the sex front because we are both 'once bitten twice shy' and don't want to get too involved, too quickly.
She's very independent -- to me, that's a plus point. Having only had clingy girlfriends in the past, I want someone who has her own life. But I am kind of feeling that this is going too far the other way!
I am not clingy -- I know ENFPs have a reputation for being clingy -- but I'm pretty self-sufficient.
I'd just like to know how other ENTJ women experience the early stages of a new relationship ... just hoping for some insights that will help me understand the minimal contact thing.