I have drawn several conclusions lately, firstly of which is that I just fundamentally don't care. I realize the few times I care about things there are some questions I ask myself subconciously. I ask things such as, is there money coming my way from this? is this important to me? am I interested beyond the puzzle of the situation/question/statement? I find most of the time the answears I get back are a flat no. Primarilly this has helped me learn patients beyond my years, tolerance, flexibility, and has greatly decreased stress in my life.
I'm not really asking a question, but I am curious as to how other people figure out were they invest their time and attention and mental wellbeing. Their caring.