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    Default INTJ-INTP first date

    I was told by a friend a little while ago that I would be a perfect match for one of her friends. So, I got her E-mail address and sent her a message. After that we started to message each other about once a week. Then I decided to call her and ask her out on a date. We decided to go to a Science Museum. Well last Saturday we went.

    At first it was sort of awkward. We could not really get any conversation going, but then I did something stupid(couldn't figure out the elevator) and she could not stop laughing. After that everything flowed perfectly. We were talking about anything and everything. We didn't pay much attention to things at the Museum, just each other. I found it very entertaining on how she didn't always get my humor. For instance there were some small funeral boxes that looked just like coffins. I said man people must have been small back then. She just went on to explain how they were buried and later the bones were dug up and put into them. Then looked back at my big smile and would smile back. We ended up spending about 5 hours there and at the end both told each other that we had a great time and we should do it again sometime.

    For me the first date was a blast I was expecting the worst, hopefully she feels the same.

    My question is for INTJ women. From here how do I not screw this up? Do you have any tips for the second date? Any other information would be well appreciated. Thanks.

    david

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    Sounds like y'all have chemistry.

    Don't over think this. Don't construct theories/strategies about the relationship. Spend time with her and try to get to know her. Continue to act naturally.

    You know, enjoy her and be enjoyable to be around without trying too hard.

    Anyway that's my general relationshipping strategy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dmm2442 View Post
    We decided to go to a Science Museum.
    Ha!

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    Listen to me, baby, you got to understand, you're old enough to learn the makings of a man.

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    Already screwing it up by asking advice on how not to screw it up.

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    Sort out your punctuation.
    Those INTJs eat that shit up.
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    The question is: How can you screw it up?

    There is 'good meaning' in failures my child.

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    I would be doomed if it came down to punctuation.

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    Good point I don't date much, so at least I will get some experience.

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    2nd date ideas from an INTP guy who's college girlfriend was an INTJ.

    Play Apples to Apples with a group.

    INTJs don't like how INTPs change rules of game. Or maybe they do

    Mini golf. INTJs are very competitive, INTPs don't give a crap about winning, we just like to play.

    Go to a Mall and people watch. Write down comments about the people (make fun of them) on a piece of paper. Keep the piece of paper as a memento, as the INTJ will want to recycle it.

    Eventually this relationship is headed for disaster, get to that point as quick as you can & if it moves beyond that, great!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Morgan Le Fay View Post
    Sort out your punctuation.
    Those INTJs eat that shit up.
    What about Shiet Happens? They seem to write in chatspeak sometimes even.
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    Sounds like you two are going good! Have fun!
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