This is starting to make sense.
Ugh, I hate to stereotype, so sorry!......but some ESFPs, they kind of...don't think about consequences, and .. some can be manipulative and use others for whatever the case may be, and continue to do this for their whole life, how come their Fi doesn't keep their values/morals in check? I do agree and understand the idea of their Fi having to catch up, but once it does, then what? They feel guilty for a little while and then just forget about it go back to their old ways?
So what I am gathering, is that since I have Ne, I can use my Fi almost hand in hand, but someone with Se is so caught in the moment that they can't even process their Fi until their life calms down and they can think about what they've done? Is it possible for them to use their Fi while in the here-and-now and not after the fact?