I'm not talking about all of you, ENTJs. (Although this could apply to all of you, and I'd really like your feedback.)
I met an ENTJ not too long ago - a little under/over a month, maybe?
The first time we met in person, he drove almost 40 miles just to pick me up, so we could go to a concert that HE was running/in charge of. We talked the entire way there. The conversation flowed fairly well. Keep in mind, we barely talked prior to this.
We were around each other for the rest of the night, but didn't talk much, since we were both distracted by different things. After the concert, I went with him back to his place, where all the bands had recuperated to hang out.
Spent the night there (everyone did), and in the morning, I gave the ENTJ a hug before I left, and he said 'I'll be seeing you soon'. (I think it was more of a question, but sounded like a statement. Ha.)
About a week later, we went to a movie with a bunch of friends, and hung out until 2 in the morning.
Another week or so goes by, and we hang out again. This time we run around in the rain all afternoon. And this time, he tries to kiss me. (Prior to this, he has told me he liked me, a few times.)
Now he wants to see me again. I should not be suspicious of his intentions, but from what I know and have heard of ENTJs, I can't help but to be.
He has been very sincere - compliments me, shows concern, and seems to care. He has told me he wants to be the one to 'make me happy, and be there for me'. He has told me that he thinks we can learn a lot from eachother, which I do not deny.
Despite all this, I am wary.
What do YOU think? Sincere? Or?
Of all the types, I truly think ENTJs are the most hard to read, and I am quite good at reading people.
Tell me your thoughts, your opinions. If I've been to vague or you are unsure about anything, ask. I'll answer.