Well, if the ENTJ's would stop willfully choosing to marry ISFJ's, then I would be happy to have them. I also enjoy pancakes, and if I must become one, I request that only the finest maple syrup be poured on me.
Hmm. My oldest sister is an ENTJ. She would never, ever 'steamroller' me, and she tells me she loves me all the time. She is very warm towards me, and gives me compliments constantly. However.. She IS my sister.
I'm also talking to a male ENTJ at the moment.. He has been quite nice so far, and very complimenting as well. His emotions seem to be almost completely absent, however. I can tell when he's happy or contemplative, but other than that, I really can't tell what he is feeling.. And if he is feeling at all. He DOES express how he feels at times, which is helpful.
But the whole 'steamrolling' thing and 'screw and dump thing'.. I can see both my sister and him being able to do each without a problem. It's just the air they give off. They seem to have an easy time.. Not caring. Which is fine. Even as an ENFP, I don't care much either.