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View Poll Results: What do you want to be valued for, by a partner?

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  • Mind - I'm a male NT.

    28 47.46%
  • Mind - I'm a female NT.

    16 27.12%
  • Body - I'm a male NT.

    1 1.69%
  • Body - I'm a female NT.

    1 1.69%
  • Heart - I'm a male NT.

    9 15.25%
  • Heart - I'm a female NT.

    4 6.78%
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  1. #21
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    These two threads were posted for contrast.

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    Want to be valued for

    Mind:
    Male - 56.67%
    Female - 30%

    Body:
    Male - 3.33%
    Female - 0%

    Heart:
    Male - 10%
    Female - 0%

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    Value in a partner

    Mind:
    Male - 34.62%
    Female - 30.77%

    Body:
    Male - 0%
    Female - 3.85%

    Heart:
    Male - 26.92%
    Female - 3.85%

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    What do these figures represent to you?

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    NTs need more self evaluation.

    Edit: They need more porn on their computers.
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    Most definitely the heart. My thoughts will come ago, they are too fluid to be valued, because my values change.

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    Anyone can notice that I'm smart

    It's someone that gets to know me to see that my hearts in the right place that I appreciate
    This, kinda...All I do is try to understand and if that makes me be perceived as smart then so be it. If it doesn't then I don't really care either. My intentions are to understand and I guess that is what lies in my heart. Someone who can see those intentions and perhaps help me with them is more valuable to me than someone who thinks I'm smart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Then why not just say none of 3 is more important?
    Are you deliberately trying not to understand what I'm saying here?
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    Quote Originally Posted by guesswho View Post
    I wish to be valued for the way I sit still and do nothing.


    Quote Originally Posted by Mkenya View Post
    This, kinda...All I do is try to understand and if that makes me be perceived as smart then so be it. If it doesn't then I don't really care either. My intentions are to understand and I guess that is what lies in my heart. Someone who can see those intentions and perhaps help me with them is more valuable to me than someone who thinks I'm smart.
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    I want to be admired for my mind but I tend to value heart more in other people. Hmmmm....
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    Quote Originally Posted by guesswho View Post
    I wish to be valued for the way I sit still and do nothing.
    You meant to say, sit still and think, right? So, you'd choose "mind"?

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    I'm not sure I can agree that "mind" and "heart" are two distinct entities.
    If a deaf INFP falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Matthew_Z View Post
    I'm not sure I can agree that "mind" and "heart" are two distinct entities.
    I agree. There is a large crossover. Unless it is the biological mind and heart, in which case, they could hardly be more seperate.
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