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View Poll Results: Which is the most important asset in a partner?

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  • Mind - I'm a male NT

    25 33.33%
  • Mind - I'm a female NT

    18 24.00%
  • Body including face - I'm a male NT

    4 5.33%
  • Body including face - I'm a female NT

    1 1.33%
  • Heart - I'm a male NT

    19 25.33%
  • Heart - I'm a female NT

    8 10.67%
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  1. #41
    ReflecTcelfeR
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    I haven't really thought about this beyond the fact of hormones wanting me to mate with the 'best' (biologically speaking) person out there, but in review (a quick one, but one none the less) I'd say even an attempt at trying to understand and not scoff my crazier ideas is needed otherwise I will feel a sense of rejection. Intellectual equal? I don't find myself any smarter than most so I suppose that isn't needed as much as the other having a large 'heart'.

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    I'm not an NT (although I test as one), but I share many traits.

    For me it's easy to pick. Heart, then mind, then body.

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    You need all three for a functioning relationship, I´d say (if by body you mean physical/sexual attraction, not just looks).

    In my experience:

    heart + body = passionate short term fling, but little substance
    heart + mind = intimate friendship, platonic relationship
    mind + body = intellectual f*ck buddies, can be fun but is ultimately unfulfilling

    If you ask me what lasts the longest, I´d go with mind.
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    So NT women are more NT than NT men?
    Figures.

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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

  5. #45
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    You noticed that too.

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    big tits would be nice

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    These are just details of a whole, I require all of these things to be well-developed.

    Mightier than the tread of marching armies is the power of an idea whose time has come

  8. #48
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    All the heart does is pump your blood. Why are people voting heart??

  9. #49
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    Heart is not the same as 'heart'. It hints towards emotional depth.

  10. #50
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    Quote Originally Posted by ReflecttcelfeR View Post
    Heart is not the same as 'heart'. It hints towards emotional depth.
    I got that 2 minutes after I posted.... ....

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