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  • Mind - I'm a male NT

    25 33.33%
  • Mind - I'm a female NT

    18 24.00%
  • Body including face - I'm a male NT

    4 5.33%
  • Body including face - I'm a female NT

    1 1.33%
  • Heart - I'm a male NT

    19 25.33%
  • Heart - I'm a female NT

    8 10.67%
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    Heart.

    Because loveless relationships aren't worth my time.
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    In the end, I go with mind. I seek out mind more than heart. While heart is insanely important, I cannot date someone of lesser intelligence than I. I just can't do it.

    Unless I intend on just using them. Which I don't do.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    You do not have to seek out for someone with heart, if your own is at the right place. That doesnt mean your partner could be heartless, no. its an attitude:
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    You're right. Id have to say mind is far more important. Someone that gets me mentally is great.
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    I'd say heart. As I said when I accidentally answered the other thread thinking it was this one, I'd rather have an averaged brained person who cares for me and others than an emotionally distant and uncaring genius. But I doubt I'd have to choose between one. If a person did not fulfill both of these to a reasonable degree, I would probably not want them as a partner.

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    Heart.

    Because she must complete me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guesswho View Post
    Heart.

    Because she must complete me.
    This only my personal opinion, but I think relationships of completion are destiened to be fail. In a relationship it should be more like tossing the ball around to each other. If someone's totally retarded to catch it, tis wont work.

    Then again I just think its an attitude to say one is retarded and most people who say that aint.
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    It's what I need at the moment.

    I'm sick of tossing balls around.

    I want stability.

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    There is stability within the rules of the game of ball tossing.
    Excuse me, but does this smell like chloroform to you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by guesswho View Post
    It's what I need at the moment.

    I'm sick of tossing balls around.

    I want stability.
    Woah. Hold on. ENTP wanting STABILITY?

    But I'm rather the same, even though I've never really been in a romantic relationship. In fact it's probably why. If I had a relationship, I'd want it to be serious. Not serious like all stoic and stuff, just like not a game or a fling or anything.

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