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    Default ENTJs, first time failures

    To all my fellow ENTJs:

    How do you overcome a bad first impression towards others?

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    why did you post twice...? i would also like to kno too, but you prbly just show them that you arn't what they though you were over time

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    An INTJ using chatspeak?

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    wats chatspeak...?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shiet_Happens View Post
    why did you post twice...?
    Dude, the double post was an accident

    Quote Originally Posted by mrsherlockholmes View Post
    An INTJ using chatspeak?
    Sorry, my friend tends to be scatterbrained in social situations.

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    if you mean my horrendous typing, i type like that cuz it saves time...

    and i don't think any of my friends would think im scatterbrained in social situations... i feel like you think i have no social skills -.- besiiides u only see me once a week at most

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shiet_Happens View Post
    if you mean my horrendous typing, i type like that cuz it saves time...

    and i don't think any of my friends would think im scatterbrained in social situations... i feel like you think i have no social skills -.- besiiides u only see me once a week at most
    Much better. Now please, excuse the trivialities. Any thoughts on this topic?

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    I don't give a shit. I treat them like I do everyone else...and if they don't like me, screw them. It can bother me at times, but generally I don't care. Their loss.

    However, if it is a boss?
    I charm the fucking pants off them, usually in a way where they know I'm being completely insincere, but one where if they don't play nice they are the ones that look like the jerk.

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    It's quite unfortunate if you screw up your impression the first time you meet someone, because after 5 seconds, the impression is rather cemented. That's how the golden halo (or horns) phenomenon happens.

    BUT...my theory is this.

    They say it takes 21 days to form a habit. And habits are ingrained patterns of behavior dictated by your mind, right?

    So you could attempt to work backwards. Show the person 21 instances of good behavior in front of the person. And then hopefully the consistent image you present will be burned into their mind. And then they'll be convinced, as their mind will have formed the habit of "witnessing you a good way."

    So, it's basically fake it till you make it. It's like tattooing over a preexisting tattoo. Just keep coloring over the old one until it's gone.
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    I don't believe in projecting a false image of myself. I guess that's why ENTJs are so powerful. Because they're all evil manipulative liars!

    Joking! Sort of...

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