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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    This is exactly my first thought when pondering and INTJ/ENFP relationship. It wouldn't have anything to do with commitments (like being unfaithful). It would have more to do with being able to pay a bill on time or pick kids up from school, practical things. The reason I use those examples is I know a couple ENFP's very well, one male, one female and it is always something practical that is a point of contention in their relationships. I should point out that the male is married to an INFJ woman and the female is married to an ISTJ male so it isn't exactly surprising. They both also say their spouses have become boring but it looks to me like a whole lot of resentment on both sides, more than anything else. They're both great friends to me, but there is no way I would even consider a relationship with either of them.
    I've been told I'm her stability, but I guess over time, my stability will lead to boringness.

    From ENFP Relationships

    On the entirely other end of the spectrum, many ENFPs have a difficult time staying focused and following things through to completion. If they have not focused on their ability to follow through, they may have problems staying in dedicated, monogamous relationships. They are so in tune with all of the exciting possibilities of what could be, that they will always fantasize about a greener pasture out there somewhere. If they are not paired with a partner who enjoys new experiences, or who shares their idealistic enthusiasm, the ENFP may become bored. The ENFP who is bored and who is not focused will be very unhappy, and will eventually "leave" the relationship if the problem is not addressed.
    I just don't understand how I'm supposed to be their natural partner. Sure I like new things, Te related, but not new Fi related... that is where the problem starts.

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    INTJ + ENTP = bad
    INTJ + ENFP = ok
    INTJ + ESFP = great

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    VAGINA + PENIS = BLUWAFFLE
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    INTJ+ Anyone-we-truely-want = great
    Imagine this is the best thing you've ever read.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mademoiselle View Post
    INTJ+ Anyone-we-truely-want = great
    Do you think personality-compatibility effects whether you truly want someone?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Legion View Post
    Do you think personality-compatibility effects whether you truly want someone?
    I simply say, when we really want. There’s no such thing called impossible.
    I can do anything.
    Normally I’d choose the effortless way to have most affect.
    But if love poisoned me, just in case, I’d do anything to keep it like that.

    I don’t fall in love, but when I do…
    I don’t say I like the guy but when I do..

    It worth it.
    Last edited by Mademoiselle; 10-07-2014 at 03:07 PM. Reason: they>the*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mademoiselle View Post
    I simply say, when we really want. There’s no such thing called impossible.
    I can do anything.
    Normally I’d choose the effortless way to have most affect.
    But if love poisoned me, just in case, I’d do anything to keep it like that.

    I don’t fall in love, but when I do…
    I don’t say I like they guy but when I do..

    It worth it.
    You're very young so I will cut you some slack there but....you can't control the other person. YOU can say - Nothing is impossible but you can't make THEM part of your impossible success with certainty. Relationships are not the same as setting a goal and saying - I'm climbing Mt. Everest, 3 years from this day. No one would have a problem seeing that materialize because there is so much focus and drive. You can have all the want and ability in the world but when people aren't compatible, even for very small reasons, it will not work, even if that compatibility changes over time.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
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    I like it.
    You hem me in -- behind and before;
    you have laid your hand upon me.
    Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
    too lofty for me to attain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    You're very young so I will cut you some slack there but....you can't control the other person. YOU can say - Nothing is impossible but you can't make THEM part of your impossible success with certainty. Relationships are not the same as setting a goal and saying - I'm climbing Mt. Everest, 3 years from this day. No one would have a problem seeing that materialize because there is so much focus and drive. You can have all the want and ability in the world but when people aren't compatible, even for very small reasons, it will not work, even if that compatibility changes over time.


    You can’t change him, true.
    But there’s something deep in him that makes you love him.
    And if you focus on it and all there other positive things about him.
    + If you avoided all the negative things about him.

    And no matter who he’s you’ll have problems, fight, make up again, ..etc
    It’s normal, and as long as you love each other truly, these little things won’t get in the way.
    If you were honest with your self.
    And You do want him.
    You can live together, I know many couples who’ve been together forever happily ever after.
    These couples didn’t now what was mbti.. didn’t even know the internet.
    So? Let’s use every possible thing to keep it.
    Imagine this is the best thing you've ever read.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mademoiselle View Post


    You can’t change him, true.
    But there’s something deep in him that makes you love him.
    And if you focus on it and all there other positive things about him.
    + If you avoided all the negative things about him.

    And no matter who he’s you’ll have problems, fight, make up again, ..etc
    It’s normal, and as long as you love each other truly, these little things won’t get in the way.
    If you were honest with your self.
    And You do want him.
    You can live together, I know many couples who’ve been together forever happily ever after.
    These couples didn’t now what was mbti.. didn’t even know the internet.
    So? Let’s use every possible thing to keep it.
    I like your naivity, which makes me doubt your mbti but not your e-type.
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