Also, when someone has taken advantage of the ENTJ. I saw an ENTJ lose about $2,500 on a "handshake deal gone bad", and steam was coming out his nostrils. He was out for revenge!!!
When I spot Te in a person, I try to "let them lead" (because I know it comes natural to them) and I'm not one to really enjoy being in the spotlight anyways. But, it definitely can seem like steamrolling to some of the softer types (for lack of a better term) when the ENTJ is "giving orders". "You go do this! I need you to go over there and do that!"
90% of the time, I'll go along with it. If it starts to be too much, however, I bark back.
So, that's my question to you ENTJ's. How do you react when you are taking charge and trying to get something done (and maybe steamrolling people without realizing it) and someone stubborn (like me ) says to you, "Wait a second? Who died and made you God? Quit talking to me like I'm 4 years old and talk to me like an adult. I'm on your side and I'm here to help, but I'm not your slave. Capiche?"
Do you respect that? Or would you be more likely to think, "Whatever! Get out of my way then. I don't need you on my team."????
Cuz that's how it is for non-ENTJ's sometimes. I, for one, like your leadership 90% of the time. But, the other 10% of the time it's just WAY too much. WAY over the top. And as a fellow NT, those are the times that my Ti comes out and I basically say, "Back off!!!"
You guys are awesome. It's just that 10% of the time it's like, "What did this guy eat for breakfast?"