I know that there are several ENTJ threads going on right now and some of them do have to do with relationships -- but from what I've gathered, nearly all of us when in a romantic situation become...clingy.
I haven't really dated around and when I do, I find myself becoming so wrapped up in that person that I can't focus on anything else. It's not creepy stalkerish, more of...they are always on my mind. I'm curious as to if this is, once again, a personal fault or something that other people have noticed happens to them.
I replay conversations in my head with that person, continually questioning what I did wrong and how to fix it -- even if there isn't anything wrong. I become paranoid when they don't call back or text, even if they are busy -- therefore texting more and more until then I do come across as a fucking loon.
I also have the bad habit of become angry when my expectations aren't met -- even if I never told them my expectations. I expect them to know what I want and to follow through and when they don't (of course they don't) I become either a) livid or b) depressed.
How do you deal with it, if you have had this feeling?
Any advice is welcome as I really don't want to lose this person again (which I seem to already be doing. Again.)