I'm anti-social and from what I'm seeing if ur anti-social u'll never find a girl. Now I ENJOY being anti-social. I like being alone. It's stressful for me to deal with drama, so I don't deal with it. There are "other" ways to get girls and I guess those are parties/clubs. I read "pua" books and fully understand it. but parties/clubs ARE NOT my thing. Not to mention I couldn't stand myself saying all those garbage stuff to girls anyway.
As I'm getting older it's getting harder and I'm losing more confidence as I age. Is it possible for me to have ANY relationship with opposite sex? I do realize you have to spend lots of time and effort before anything happends but I just can't stand spending time with them.
^ these questions may sound like asking for a reward that you don't deserve or didn't work for but I can't be the only one that enjoy being alone and having problems with this.
I do realize how to fix this. which is be MORE SOCIAL, but there's got to be a different way. if not I'm pretty much screwed in life.