I really approve of Jeno's and her man's strategy. I wish I had done this from the beginning, but it's not too late to bring that into a relationship. It's just so efficient in every way. Saves you a lot of time, energy, grief - you know what you're getting yourself into, what to expect and it gives you a lot of freedom within the relationship. You can always challenge the status quo, it's not set in stone, it simply gives you a sense of wholeness and calm. Giving your mind space to think about other important stuff, than "where is this relationship going" and things like that. And, it's great team-work! I'm impressed.