When they over complement me and call me/text/email too much....and when you respond/reply in kind lose respect for you.
I still have difficulty in determining when to set boundaries vs. when to be nice and Mr. Manners. Sometimes I will purposely seem anti-seductive (i.e. needy/doormat) just to cool things off without offending.
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Originally Posted by Edgar
Spamtar - a strange combination of boorish drunkeness and erudite discussions, or what I call "an Irish academic"
Well, everyone is unique, so i'm sure they think of us NT's as people whose shit they have to put up with too.
lol having made the above disclaimer ...
I dislike it when people don't think their decisions through..especially when the decisions are based heavily on emotions. i don't want to sound like a stereotype here..but decisions largely based on emotions are not always sound
I also dislike it when people are very very friendly(in the "HEY!!!!!!! nice to meet you!!!! its so COOOL!!!! types) even if i just met them for the first time. I mean, im friendly too...but being super expressive to a person who they just met is kinda odd.And sounds fake.
Also people who might think we are not as overtly friendly as their other friends (types who call them and talk on the phone for god knows how long every day) just cos we don't express it.lol. In my book, there is nothing worse than saying "hey we are best friends right?"(or something to that effect) ever so often.....i don't get this need for continuous re-affirmation of friendships when there is no need to.actions ought to suffice, rather than verbal statements.