Do you perceive yourself as a cold person? What is your definition of "cold"?
Inability to maintain homeostasis in sub-zero temperatures for very long.
Also, what Uytuun said. Inability to feel an emotional connection to people and inability to express that feeling.
Although, I am warmer than most of my guy friends I think (they can be pretty cruel and abrasive.)
How about others? Do they perceive you as a cold person?
I don't think so, but maybe. I think I am pretty good at the facade.
If you answered yes to the first question, does your coldness push people away?
Are you warm to certain people only? If so, who are those people and why are you warm to them?
There are a few people I feel a connection to. They are hard to find, and always busy or easily distracted. I am pretty much exuberant with them though.