Well, I don't see myself really as a cool person, but I know people see me often as one. Perhaps because I'm very reserved and don't like to give an emotional response. I'm actually very sensitive and aware of other people and their feelings and can easily become overwhelmed by them. And partly because of this I keep a distant, and yes, maybe I see myself then as cold. However, I have to say that people can also see me as a cold person when I'm actually very aware of the feelings of other people. Only because I have little facial expression and have a reserved attitude. If a friend comes to me with a personal issue I would rather ask questions about it in a therapeutic way than give a emotional response. I see myself then as a warm person, I only try to help and give comfort (in my own way), but I can imagine other people see this as cold.