I'm curious now from reading the "NT Females - Are Relationships Difficult" thread. I've seen a lot of us referring to themselves as having high standards, being 'picky' and knowing immediately when a relationship won't work.
What are the minimum characteristics that you REQUIRE in a potential mate? If you won't date someone who likes crunchy peanut butter... lets have it. Lets have an extensive list, be it physical, personality related, quirk related, maturity/responsibility related, etc, etc.
Lets do the MUST HAVE, the I PREFER, the PREFER NOT and the DEALBREAKERS
Here is mine...
A stable job
A stable home life
Prefer NOT to deal with if possible
Computer/Gaming addicts (Must be able to balance with other activities)
Red Sox Fans (hahaha)
Someone who always has to be out of the house doing something to be happy
I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...
Has a love/passion for music - any kind, either creating or enjoying others'
Has knowledge of literature and likes to read
Someone who can handle finances and plans ahead
I might think of more, but thats a start.
Lets see if we're unreasonable...