[NT] The NT Females' List of Deal Breakers

[Misty_Mountain_Rose]

Do any of you girls actually know any musicians, poets, or creatives? I mean, I'm one and I smoke... we all do. I'd say I'm probably your dream guy, but I guess a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker.

Its not a dealbreaker on my list... just a 'prefer not...' A bunch of guys that I've dated were smokers, but there are times when it is annoying since I'm not a smoker.

Also, I'm sure most people look better IRL than on paper.

Am I a cynic for thinking its probably the other way around?

 

[copperfish17]

Am I a cynic for thinking its probably the other way around?

Nah, you're not the one to blame.

 

[mrcockburn]

MUST HAVE's

Adventur..osity?
Respect
Independence. Have a life of your own, and let me live mine.
Honesty
Dignity
RESPECT FOR PERSONAL SPACE...
Appreciation of my personality/humor. Only the best recognize the best.
Open-minded
Enjoys debates, without taking things personally
Trustworthy
420 friendly
Clean
Objective
HYGIENE. PLEASE.
Ambition.


Prefer NOT to deal with if possible

Smokers
MORNING BIRDS, I'll BARBEQUE the things.
Computer/Gaming addicts (the types that smell musty...)
Drama seekers
Homebodies
the thin-skinned
People who regularly eat pork or shellfish...I keep kosher. Selfish, but I'm not listing this as a deal breaker per se.

I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...

Has a love/passion for music - any kind, either creating or enjoying others'
Isn't afraid to try fun stuff with me. Skydiving, drag racing, scuba diving, going on a safari, or sitting in a Jerry Springer episode audience just for the sake of doing it.
Won't try to fight me for the driver's seat
Someone who can handle finances and plans ahead. And if they can't, they're responsible for themselves.
Optimistic.


DEAL BREAKERS

Violent Criminal record (if you were busted with a bag of grass, I don't really care about that. Strangling a prostitute is a different matter.)
STDs
Abusive/Controlling/CLINGINESS/Possessiveness/Jealousy
Hard drugs/alcoholics
Married
Dogmatically religious
Cheaters
Invading privacy
Kids.

 

[MiasmaResonance]

Don't you see how much easier dating would be if everyone used lists and point systems?!

I'm taking notes here..

 

[Unique]

Prefer NOT to deal with if possible

1. People who make lists.

lol beat me to it

 

[SinistralPal]

NT women's list of dealbreakers

Ok, well, please merge or move or whatever needs to be done to this thread if it is a repeat. But in my lazy glance down the NT forum, I could only see a list of dealbreakers for men and a list of shit that NT women put up with. How sexist is that?!

Anyway, I feel like there needs to be a balance here. NT women, please write down your list of dealbreakers for a relationship. And don't be shy...

 

[slowriot]

If they also write down sports as a dealbreaker my heart will be shattered. Please please please....

Dont make me want an SP more than you.....

 

[SinistralPal]

Haha, sports?? What's that??

Emotions kinda creep me out a bit. So, crying on the first date (wtf? right?) or even being generally sappy. Ugh. Dealbreaker!

 

[lunalum]

I'm not sure how to merge it...

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nt-rationale/31629-nt-females-list-deal-breakers.html

 

[SinistralPal]

tanx!

 

[Not_Me]

Prefer NOT to deal with if possible

1. People who make lists.

A very concise list, complete with item numbering.

 

[Vie]

MUST HAVE's

Ambition.
Honesty.
Confidence and self-respect.
Clean.
HUMOR.


Prefer NOT to deal with if possible

Smokers.
Morning people, sick freaks!
Game addictions (but this is somewhat hypocritical of me, as I tend to obsess about things.)
Little education.


I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...

Optimistic.
Enjoys sports.
Musically inclined.



DEAL BREAKERS

STD's, drug user, alcoholic.
No job.
Abusive or controlling, as I would probably jack the person right back if they ever tried anything.
If they walk away without letting me finish saying what needs to be said. I really CANNOT stand it.
Over zealous religious nuts.

 

[Salomé]

A very concise list, complete with item numbering.

Yes. I prefer it if other people deal with me.

 

[Reflection]

MUST HAVE'S in no particular order

Humor
College (definitely some form of high education)
Ambition
Curiosity
Honesty
Being able to plan ahead
Confidence

Prefer NOT to deal with if possible...

Overly affectionate people
Religious (I don't mind, but still... balance)
Morning people (I see that's very popular on these lists)
Lack of self-respect

I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...

Understands my love of books and possibly even shares it
Is trusting
Expresses some sort of taste in art (be it music, painting or poetry)
Witty and sharp

DEALBREAKERS

No drug abusers or alcoholics, thank you
Clinically depressed
Dubious hygiene
No abusers of any kind (that should be a given, though)
Kids
Cheaters
Someone who can't stand up to me (if I wanted someone pliant, I'd buy myself a doormat)

 

[Fluffywolf]

MUST HAVE'S in no particular order

Humor
College (definitely some form of high education)
Ambition
Curiosity
Honesty
Being able to plan ahead
Confidence

Prefer NOT to deal with if possible...

Overly affectionate people
Religious (I don't mind, but still... balance)
Morning people (I see that's very popular on these lists)
Lack of self-respect

I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...

Understands my love of books and possibly even shares it
Is trusting
Expresses some sort of taste in art (be it music, painting or poetry)
Witty and sharp

DEALBREAKERS

No drug abusers or alcoholics, thank you
Clinically depressed
Dubious hygiene
No abusers of any kind (that should be a given, though)
Kids
Cheaters
Someone who can't stand up to me (if I wanted someone pliant, I'd buy myself a doormat)

The being able to plan ahead part, does that include actually planning ahead, or just having the potential and ability to do so?

 

[Resonance]

Must have:
-Loyal (intellectually)
-Good health sense

Prefer to have:
-Super powers, magic, vampirism, or some other supernatural attribute (mind reading counts)
-Tidies up after self
-Loyal (sexually)

Prefer not to deal with:
-Poor spelling/grammar
-Smelly
-Whines a lot
-Poor financial sense
-Werewolf
-Can't tie own shoelaces

Dealbreakers:
-Hates progress
-Leaves bread crumbs in the peanut butter/butter/honey/jam/etc.
-Abuse (of me)
-Murder (of guests [who don't deserve it] [and me])
-Likes cold climates

 

[runvardh]

Must have:
-Loyal (intellectually)
-Good health sense

Prefer to have:
-Super powers, magic, vampirism, or some other supernatural attribute (mind reading counts)
-Tidies up after self
-Loyal (sexually)

Prefer not to deal with:
-Poor spelling/grammar
-Smelly
-Whines a lot
-Poor financial sense
-Werewolf
-Can't tie own shoelaces

Dealbreakers:
-Hates progress
-Leaves bread crumbs in the peanut butter/butter/honey/jam/etc.
-Abuse (of me)
-Murder (of guests [who don't deserve it] [and me])
-Likes cold climates

Wohoo!!!
Meh...
But, but
Fuck!

 

[Reflection]

The being able to plan ahead part, does that include actually planning ahead, or just having the potential and ability to do so?

Actually fulfilling one's plans would be perfect. I can plan... but I can't really implement long-range plans. Mainly because I forget about it.

 

[Resonance]

Wohoo!!!
Meh...
But, but
Fuck!

Wait, what kind of super powers do you have?!?

 

[runvardh]

Wait, what kind of super powers do you have?!?

Empath and cryoresistant; can't read your mind though I can get close, and it takes twice to three times as long for me to advance through the stages of hypothermia. It's also good for keeping warm in the winter.

The cryoresistant, however, has a weakness attached, thermophobia.

Edit: the Empath also gives me 6 second situational precog (LOS, 10m range)