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    Quote Originally Posted by ragashree View Post
    That wasn't the organ his comment made me think of, but near enough I suppose...
    I didn't want to threaten his masculinity.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    MUST HAVE's

    Independent
    Honest
    Open-minded
    Confident
    Ambitious
    Curious



    Prefer NOT to deal with if possible

    Heavy partyers
    Melodramatic and/or overly sensitive
    Sports fans
    Vegetarianism/veganism
    Mentally unstable
    Hung up about sex
    Clingy
    Very religious


    I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...

    Enjoys games (video games, card games, strategy games, making a competition out of any/everything...)
    Enjoys trying new things
    Is curious about, interested in, and/or knowledgeable of science
    Enjoys music, art, movies, books, plays
    Doesn't always have to be doing something active


    DEAL BREAKERS

    Controlling
    Anyone convicted of a violent crime
    Junkie
    Intolerant of other perspectives/beliefs
    Stupid

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    Quote Originally Posted by EffEmDoubleyou View Post
    I don't think anyone's dodging the question. I think what you might be missing is the implication given by the formality of making a list vs. having an instinctive, unconscious running recalculation in your head of the suitability of potential dates.

    When you put a list on paper, it has more power. It's easy to let the list guide your judgment instead of the other way around. I don't think anyone here is saying that they don't have an idea of the kind of person they want. But having a few guidelines that are subject to the vagaries of personal interaction with different kinds of people isn't the same thing at all as making a formal list of "dealbreakers" and "must haves".
    That's what my "list" is, though. It's mostly instinctive and intuitive. But putting it in list form doesn't make it as if it were carved in stone and carried down from the mountaintops. I think people are getting too hung up on the "list" thing.

    I do agree that dating sites can be screwed-up in that way, where you just put everything in a profile, and judge the other's profile before you even get a chance to interact and know each other as people.
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    Do any of you girls actually know any musicians, poets, or creatives? I mean, I'm one and I smoke... we all do. I'd say I'm probably your dream guy, but I guess a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orpheus View Post
    Do any of you girls actually know any musicians, poets, or creatives? I mean, I'm one and I smoke... we all do. I'd say I'm probably your dream guy, but I guess a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker.
    Not so much.
    Everybody have fun tonight. Everybody Wang Chung tonight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orpheus View Post
    Do any of you girls actually know any musicians, poets, or creatives? I mean, I'm one and I smoke... we all do. I'd say I'm probably your dream guy, but I guess a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker.
    Actually... I'm in an art college right now. There's a disproportionate number of smokers, yes, but it's far from "we all do".

    If I could figure out how to ... actually I just realized. Youtube. HURP DE DURP. Why didn't I think of that earlier? Well at least this post was useful for SOMETHING XD

    *Uploads video of current project she's working on*

    Mwa here yeu go.

    [YOUTUBE="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MrZRQxxBetg"]BMW Vision - half done model rotation[/YOUTUBE]

    I don't smoke, drink, use drugs, or anything XD I figure as an ENTP I'm touched enough in the head as it is that I don't need any help ^.~

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    Quote Originally Posted by EffEmDoubleyou View Post
    Not so much.
    Pedantic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Orpheus View Post
    Do any of you girls actually know any musicians, poets, or creatives? I mean, I'm one and I smoke... we all do. I'd say I'm probably your dream guy, but I guess a dealbreaker is a dealbreaker.
    Yeah. They exist. The guy I went out with last night is a successful, talented guitarist, who is also a non-smoker, vegan. He might have done some recreational drug stuff in the past, but doesn't anymore.

    Turns out people are still individuals, and they make individual choices.
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    i dated a guy who was a playwright and happened to be a smoker...only a nocturnal smoker when he was having a drink though. didn't smoke inside - not into that. he was sexy. [sigh]

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    How many replies to the contrary are needed before it isn't pedantic anymore?
    Everybody have fun tonight. Everybody Wang Chung tonight.

    Johari
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