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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    who puts groom on their to do list? did he really put that? i get visuals of that sleeping with the enemy guy from that post...for some reason...or maybe he's less crazy than he sounds...is he?
    You and I spotted the same word - groom.
    Oh, that wacko that Julia Roberts was with. Good comparison.

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    Js and their to-do lists..ugh..



    Anyway.
    You should tread carefully. I'm sure he's just trying to make you feel loved, but once it gets to a point where it goes beyond love and moves into the realm of unhealthy obsession..head for the hills. The fact that he's so on edge about you talking to your friends and other people in general really shows that he's controlling to a certain degree. This could develop into much more, in the future.
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    Yes, he DID put "groom" on his to-do list. AND he wrote a time-slot to prepare the next day's to-do list. facepalm x infinity.

    He is coming off as creepy to me now. I used to roll my eyes and let it go because I thought he'd get over it, but no.

    In lieu of an outright breakup, should I just completely avoid him 100% and hope that we can drift away naturally? It's that chainsaw thing, ya know...

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    Sounds like a case of overreactive inferior Fi. And I dunno about you, but if a girl tried that shit with me I'd just dump her ass if/when I got fed up with it.
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    wow...just wow..."make to do list" on your to do list with a specific time allotted?? whoa wth...and again a chainsaw reference...ahhh....i would defintely not just avoid him that will make him even more crazy...it will throw off his whole schedule!! he'll be plotting and scheming all sorts of crazy plans...just tell him firmly with nothing left open and ambiguous...if that is what you decide you want.
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    LOL No, he didn't make the chainsaw reference, I did. If he ever went THAT kookoo, it'd be restraining order time.

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    oh no i know...just saying YOU mentioned it twice which tells me you're a lil afraid he could easily flip a switch.
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    At this point are you no longer interested in dating him? Is this question about how to end it rather than how to fix these "problems"?
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    Quote Originally Posted by mrcockburn View Post
    LOL No, he didn't make the chainsaw reference, I did. If he ever went THAT kookoo, it'd be restraining order time.
    If he decides to use a chainsaw on you, at least you know it will be on his list before he does it.
    You'll have plenty of time to get away.

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    oh!! i have an idea! you could revise his list...scratch out the creepy things to do for alex items and put things like give alex a break and let alex know how much you value her independence by letting her hang out with her fucking friends for a bit! etc etc
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