Tell me what the NTJ attraction is with I/ENFP? Normally I'm quite good at looking at something from multiple perspectives, but I'm having trouble with this one. What I see in NTJ's that makes them attractive to me seems like it should be obvious to all : intelligence, personal power, logical thinking, strong adherence to what they believe is right, extraordinary loyalty to their loved ones, an ability to look at things without fear. But, when I try to reverse the angle, I just don't see it. My bestfriend (ENTJ) tells me she loves me because I'm "sweet without being sickening or saccharin", which I assume is a compliment.
Enlighten me please.