Yet for some reason when my INTJ offers critique, there is a second where I "think" to protest, but then rapidly, logically, Te style recognize the truth in his words. It doesnt feel like an Fe judgment, just a Te recognition of inefficiency. "Hmmmm, yeah, well he is right about that...." Even if it extends to sensitive areas like parenting or my personal finance.
The nice thing is that if i disagree, I either justify via pleasure-"I like this, thus I choose to do it, even if illogical" or I present Te style data to contradict the advice-then we discuss a few points and reach a logical choice.
It is just so simple and easy to be honest. It also allows me to be more open with respect to self improvement as I realize suggestions are not aimed at my deficiencies, but are more pragmatic in nature, thus allowable?