It always takes people ages to know me and me them. I get all anxious about relationships because I often say mean or presumptuous things unintentionally, but then don't say things I should say. I always tend to doubt my relationships as well. When I'd known my INTP friend for about a year, we got on really well. I wanted him to do something, Ican't remember, and I said
"It's your duty as.." and then I hesitated and said something random and duty implying. He then jokingly said
"Oh so I'm not good enough to be considered a friend yet" so I joked
"Nah." back. I was just so clueless I didn't even know whether he would consider me one yet.
So basically, I am totally clueless of what many others think of me and I often screw up jokes and just random conversations. You guys had any similar experience?