Greetings. I'd like some helpful self-development advice on how to remove this "inferiority" and "weak" stature that I'm placed in. I always seem to activate this "victim" mode when talking to people who are fairly well-versed in empathy. On the other hand, I become a robot when talking to less empathetic people who are serious and critical of others. But most of the time, my situation is on the usual mode of myself being weak and having a very heightened voice pitch and it really annoys me.
What do you think I need for maintaining a proper balance of this "aura"? (Some people have powerful but less "friendly auras", some have purely friendly "auras", and some have a weak "aura") --, Do you understand what I mean?
In addition, pardon my self-centeredness and over-usage of "I". I cannot try to express it in a less selfish manner. Oh well.