Strange. My jokes are always well taken by an ESFJ's. It's when I say something absurd that she would laugh. Most of them weren't intentional but I've learned to find what they find funny. Acting oblivious also works well on an ISTJ. On the ESTP, ridiculing someone.
"Sticks in the mud".
I believe the INTP's Fe allows them to feel the need to satisfy other's expectation. I've only been this way, stick in the mud, on rarer occasions wherein I criticize so much of the logic of people's advice. If it doesn't make sense to me, why would I do it? But for most, I try to avoid conflict between us and usually just go with the flow in order to satisfy their expectations.
Sometimes, I get tired of being a pushover though.