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    Default How many girls can an INTP juggle at once?

    I've reached three but I'm back to two again and wanted to know if other INTP's have the habit of doing the same, and if so what their experiences have been.

    Are you honest with them all? Consider your actions in name of love? or fall madly in love with the right one and suddenly forget the others exist?

    I've had some pretty passionate outlashes that subsided after a few days and wonder how you survived yours ???

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    My INTP father could juggle three, the holy trinity, a wife, a mistress, and a hmmm, a sexual creature.
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    Ahhhh, nice pattern. I knew I was just being me (:

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    Uhm...is it something to be proud of? I mean, past middle school?
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    I found and find it to be relatively disgusting.
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    Mine is the kind of guy who could give Horton a run for his money in the faithfulness department. Which is very good for his life expectancy.
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    In my experience, more often than not, it's been zero.

    But, when I've had the opportunity to try my hand, I generally don't stray or have much interest in doing so. Even unrequited crushes are strangely monogamous. It'll gradually fade, then I can develop a new object of affection.
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    Quote Originally Posted by marquix View Post
    Consider your actions in name of love? or fall madly in love with the right one and suddenly forget the others exist?
    Your actions are not love because love does not hurt. If you loved them you would not hurt them. What you are doing to your two or three girlfriends will ultimately hurt them.

    You need to rethink your idea of what love is before you will ever be able to be in a successful relationship.

    You won't ever fall madly in love with the right one. Perhaps for a time, but ultimately whatever issue that existed in the first place that caused you to want to cheat will crop up again, whether it be validation, the thrill, or simply getting bored. Beyond that if you are willing to cheat on her/with her, she will never be the right one.

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    Well I found it rather justifying when I read in the Myers Briggs profile that INTP's seem to define their own mating patterns, generally outside of the social norms.

    In my case, its simply the long search for the right one that will make the difference.

    If you have multiple relationships with different people on different days of the week because of work, distance or what have you, it seems like part of humanity that you are talking and sharing intimate moments with another human that has emotions, needs and finds you an interesting potential lifelong partner. Who knows if things will last a year, two, three or even 10 years.

    Giving life and others my best in my book means loving without succumbing to the "jealous" demands of partners that want it all knowing all the while that things are not ideally the best match.

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    you might want to reconsider your type.

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