letmehugyou
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Well if I hadn't flat out made any sort of commitment to a person then I would feel that it was unnecessary to explain anything. It would be sort of like coming up to a professor who doesnt know you from a large class you have and saying "I won't be in class tomorrow".... they would just look at you and think "So..?".
What makes this situation a bit complicated is that we were friends to begin with. My friends and I don't even do this sort of thing to each other.
I'll add another detail. He has made promises to respond immediately after my complaints, but didn't follow through. That is huge for me. I would rather he not make any promises at all, than to make them and not do what he said he would.