I am an ENTP woman who doesn't look like the NT woman prototype. I am stopped by people wanting to tell me how beautiful they think I am every day. If my ex is there, they tell him how lucky he is not knowing that underneath my easy charm is a sometimes difficult personality. My ex is the same way but until lately we got along like nobody's business and were inseparable for over two years. Now our differences are getting the best of us and we are fighting and he says he wants to take a break but I think this his nice way of ending our relationship. Does anyone here (you ENTPS especially) have stories to share about relationships with your identity type? Is it a bad idea to date your identity? If you have ideas on how to repair this relationship with my ENTP those would be helpful.