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    I am an ENTP woman who doesn't look like the NT woman prototype. I am stopped by people wanting to tell me how beautiful they think I am every day. If my ex is there, they tell him how lucky he is not knowing that underneath my easy charm is a sometimes difficult personality. My ex is the same way but until lately we got along like nobody's business and were inseparable for over two years. Now our differences are getting the best of us and we are fighting and he says he wants to take a break but I think this his nice way of ending our relationship. Does anyone here (you ENTPS especially) have stories to share about relationships with your identity type? Is it a bad idea to date your identity? If you have ideas on how to repair this relationship with my ENTP those would be helpful.
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    I didn't know there was an NT physical prototype. Personality correlates poorly with looks, and if anything attractive people are more likely to be intelligent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by antigone girl View Post
    I am an eNTP woman who looks nothing like the NT woman prototype. I am stopped by strangers daily who tell me how beautiful I am, that I should be a model. However, they don't know that underneath the looks and easy charm is a very creative and sometimes aggressive ENTP personality.
    Are you suggesting that the NT woman prototype is physically unattractive? Why would physical attractiveness correlate with psychological type?

    Quote Originally Posted by antigone girl View Post
    My ex-boyfriend is also ENTP. It was great while it lasted but our relationship ended like a scene from War of the Roses. Does anyone here (ENTPS you especially) have any stories to tell about their relationships with their identity type? Suggestions on how to repair relationships with your ENTP would also be very appreciated.
    Mine with an ENTP chick is awesome. I don't really want to think about it ending! It's been about 6 months and we've never even had a serious fight about anything.

    But as far as conflicts, I find that just being willing to occasionally start a dialogue about feelings usually goes a long way. (Of course, we don't talk about feelings that often, cause that would get boring!) Sometimes we don't tell each other things that are bothering us because we're afraid of restricting the other person's freedom. Most of the time we're pretty competitive and pretend mean to each other, but every once in a while I make a point of initiating "share feelings time", and it helps get everything out in the open air.

    As NTPs, we're usually pretty good at improvising fair solutions that fit both of us, once we've bothered to drop the sarcasm competition and talk seriously and honestly about something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    Are you suggesting that the NT woman prototype is physically unattractive? Why would physical attractiveness correlate with psychological type?
    She probably thinks smart = ugly, which is the popular perception (Statistically the reverse is true, actually).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aleksei View Post
    She probably thinks smart = ugly, which is the popular perception (Statistically the reverse is true, actually).
    O RLY? Source?
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    Well, I suppose that's technically less painful than sitting on it, as the original saying went.
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    I'm pretty sure the "NT haphazard and bizarre" look is entirely the fault of the INTP male. Sorry guys. The rest of you look completely normal.



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    wtf? ENTP chicks are supposed to look like ass?

    where the hell is that study?
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