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    Default ENTJ Ladies . . . what do you see is good/bad about being an ENTJ?

    Pros:
    Never being scared or intimidated in any situation.
    Always believing in my ability to overcome any obstacle.
    My wry sense of humor.
    Always learning something new.
    The ability to pick quality relationships.
    The ability to plan and wait for a goal to come to fruition.

    Cons:
    Being told I have a problem with authority.
    Not crying at girl appropriate moments. (Sometimes the people in my life don't realize HOW much I care because my Te overshadows everything).
    Not understanding "typical" teenage girl behavior (as a mom).
    Thinking everyone has the ability to see the value of being rational and then being taken by surprise when they don't.
    Being told by men that they think I would make a great partner if only I "would work on changing a few things" like being too intense/too intelligent/too strong/too independent.

    I'm interested in other female ENTJs joys and difficulties with being themselves and the opinions of others and how they see ENTJ ladies.

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    ENTJ women are incredible. Self-assured, self-sufficient, independent, coldly-rational yet imaginative, intelligent and capable women are so amazingly attractive and undervalued.

    Nothing is more of a turn off and annoyance than a needy woman and ENTJ are the polar opposites of that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainne View Post
    ENTJ women are incredible. Self-assured, self-sufficient, independent, coldly-rational yet imaginative, intelligent and capable women are so amazingly attractive and undervalued.

    Nothing is more of a turn off and annoyance than a needy woman and ENTJ are the polar opposites of that.
    Thank God for ISTPs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windigo View Post
    Thank God for ISTPs!
    ISTPs respect independence and love competence!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Windigo View Post
    Pros:
    Never being scared or intimidated in any situation.
    Uhh, what? That's not true of anyone, ENTJ or not.
    If you could be anything you want, I bet you'd be disappointed--am I right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    Uhh, what? That's not true of anyone, ENTJ or not.
    Nods..That's very true.



    It feels like everyone around me is to lax, I'm a pretty lax person , but when its time to " man up" and charge. I do it.
    I HATE it when men can't stand up for themselves, and I feel more willing to do it for them, than them doing it for themselves.

    Men are timid around me, I have no idea why, usually ( in a social situation), I am a very happy person; I don't know what vibe i give off to make them so weak-like.

    Good thing about us, is....

    We are able to see if a situation is not benefiting us, cut it loose, and not think about it again.

    Me, personally, am attracted to intelligence and wit. This weeds out a lot of clowns from being attractive what.so.ever, even if they look like Greek Gods.

    We say exactly what is on our minds. This usually gets us what we want faster.... ( only if someone CAN handle the truth).

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    Pros:

    Ability to stand my ground
    Ability to control my mind, and make it work for me (master of mind over matter)
    Knowing I will, no matter what, come out of a situation with something
    Ability to get people honestly excited about things they other wise would not have been
    Not being a victim
    Being independent, not needing or even wanting to rely on others.

    Cons

    Not backing down at times
    Not keeping my mouth shut
    Being intimidating to others
    Having the ability to actually scare others
    Bull in a china closet syndrome
    Not being more emotionally mature (Meaning not being able to handle situations I am personally emotionally invested in, as well as I can, with more objective ones. Most the time I need to disconnect myself from it to gain perspective.)


    *I actually agreed with most of the OP, excellent list.

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    these lists are turning me on.
    wails from the crypt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    Uhh, what? That's not true of anyone, ENTJ or not.
    Okay, I'll admit that I overstated the idea. We all know that universal statements are generally not logical ones. I guess what I mean is that when all hell breaks loose, people literally jump behind me. I don't know why perhaps it is extreme calmness or perhaps it is extreme stupidity.

    I haven't been in a situation where I felt intimidated by any person since I was 16 and I've been in a lot of wacky situations with gangsters, the homeless, Hell's Angels, and people who are suffering from obviously severe mental issues and violently out of control people on crack.

    I can't explain why, I guess I have this extreme confidence in rationality. I just trust that deep down inside people want to be heard . . . and if you listen to them without fear they calm down.

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    I think the main drawback for being an ENTJ woman is being viewed as a pushy bitch.

    Because if you are an ENTJ woman, chances are, you are a pushy bitch.
    Listen to me, baby, you got to understand, you're old enough to learn the makings of a man.

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