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    Quote Originally Posted by fusetah View Post
    Jeez, what a way to introduce a junior-member to the forums. You are calling her a sl-t in her first thread start
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    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Indeed she did.


    To the OP; Is emotional validation a relativly new experience to you? You don't seem immature in general, but there is something there..

    I don't think this is type related at all, you should consider talking to your friends about this

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    Quote Originally Posted by fusetah View Post



    How old(young) are you?
    early 20s, why?

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    What was suppressed?

    And why would bringing these suppressed feelings to the surface cause this rapid emotional transfer?


    Answering these questions will help guide your choices. If you want, you can answer them here, or on your own, but either way, figure it out.
    Don't know how much it'll bend til it breaks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hilo View Post
    early 20s, why?
    You're just a bit inexperienced. It's not possible for you to even have seen what the world has to offer in terms of other people and experiences. I hate being the old person saying this, but it is how it seems. You probably still feel like life is this long thing.

    And, sorry you're having a hard time. You should discuss it with your boyfriend. He might understand more than you think.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Quote Originally Posted by fusetah View Post
    Indeed she did.


    To the OP; Is emotional validation a relativly new experience to you? You don't seem immature in general, but there is something there..

    I don't think this is type related at all, you should consider talking to your friends about this
    It might really not be type related, but sometimes it's easy to start viewing relationship problems through that lens when you're struggling to make sense of something. shrug.

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    If you don't have a ring it don't mean a thing.

    Don't worry, its just sex, all is forgiven...just don't tell your SO.

    Edit: and don't tell your friends because they will just turn around and tell your SO. There is a saying that gos "silence is golden"
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    Quote Originally Posted by hilo View Post
    It might really not be type related, but sometimes it's easy to start viewing relationship problems through that lens when you're struggling to make sense of something. shrug.
    Avoid putting the responsibilty on the system, and take it yourself insted. Try to talk to some friends about it

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    Quote Originally Posted by hilo View Post
    I've "had opportunities" before - and didn't take them. It's not the sex that's the problem, but the rapidity of emotional transfer at issue. . . . I'm really just interested if other INTP-ish types have had the switch turned like that as well, or if there's any worry about temporary insanity here.
    Quote Originally Posted by spamtar View Post
    If you don't have a ring it don't mean a thing.

    Don't worry, its just sex, all is forgiven...just don't tell your SO.
    Seriously?
    Don't know how much it'll bend til it breaks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bamboo View Post
    Seriously?
    Yeah she is young and the world is her oyster. Why not? The flip side is much worse.
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