the point being.
I want to be authentic, and let my guard down with someone who I can trust. This person has to prove that. When they say things that are insensitive, and wan't to banter back and forth, whatever, when it is directed at me it, that is not okay, I don't like it.
In all honesty, I don't like to agruge in a man I'm in planning on having a relationship with. I don't consider it fun, logical debate after awhile, it's just aggression and disrespect at a certain point. And I don't want to have to put someone that has such a big ego in their place, sounds like a lot of head games to me, and confusing that could turn ugly and plain weird if we started making fun of eachother back and forth.
In short bursts it's okay, but all the time is annoying and I can't keep up with it. I would say get a debate partner...
That is I noticed recenly him confronting me on things... I don't like it so I told him, and he said he would be more sensitive.
And then he said, he didn't know what else to say to me...
Well at least he is being honest... I wonder what we can talk about? Its too hard now that I think about it. This is stressful.
Why do some people seem to tease and want it thrown back at them?
That is why I just don't bother talking... in the end. Can't get blamed that way. and I'll be darned if I will schooled by someone for some bs.