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    Default what NTs look for in a potential mate

    Define the following characteristics-

    Physical:

    Emotional:

    Mental:

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    Physical: Attractive

    Emotional: Uncrazy

    Mental: Smarties!

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    Physical: not looking like a aristocrate... laid-back if u will

    Emotional: uhh... i want someone to have some strong emotions... not like the sob-story emo type but the "Bush is a freaking dumbass!"- rant off on anger type

    Mental: smart and open-minded

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    Quote Originally Posted by lazyhappy View Post
    Physical: not looking like a aristocrate... laid-back if u will

    Emotional: uhh... i want someone to have some strong emotions... not like the sob-story emo type but the "Bush is a freaking dumbass!"- rant off on anger type

    Mental: smart and open-minded
    Do you find that you have an attraction for those with a more-accessible emotional base?

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    Do you find that you have an attraction for those with a more-accessible emotional base?
    yeah... strangly... is that less like a thinker?... eh what do i care... its just my oppinion. i have fun with those who get carried off on anger emotions... (when i'm angry aboot the same thing too of course... otherwise i'd have no clue what to say...)

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    Physical: A certain standard needs to be met, but generally, people tend to become a lot prettier if I am attracted to their personality. I seem to be especially attracted to brunettes.

    Emotional: Not annoyingly emotionally needy.

    Mental: Creative and intelligent. Appreciation of my intellect. Able to discuss anything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lazyhappy View Post
    yeah... strangly... is that less like a thinker?... eh what do i care... its just my oppinion. i have fun with those who get carried off on anger emotions... (when i'm angry aboot the same thing too of course... otherwise i'd have no clue what to say...)
    You presume that I would know...

    My question was self-referential -- I feel the same (approximate) way you do.

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    In terms of looks, I could go very deeply into detail about each little thing that I find more attractive, but I don't know if I should bother.
    I must agree with Splittet on this:

    Quote Originally Posted by Splittet View Post
    Physical: A certain standard needs to be met, but generally, people tend to become a lot prettier if I am attracted to their personality.
    So it only matters so much anyway.

    Emtionally speaking, I think I'm unusually apt to deal with neediness for an INTP. I kind of want somebody that smothers me, as weird as that sounds.
    It gives me a purpose, and makes me feel better. I definitely seem to prefer F's over T's. I want somebody that's very nice, too.


    Mentally?
    Aren't emotions a mental process?
    Anyway... I don't actually need a girl that's very smart to tell you the truth.
    I don't want someone who's ignorant, though. Even if she's kind of dim, she needs to be open to discussion, and at least willing to try to understand.


    I'm really, really not looking for someone much like myself.
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    Physical: Good looking.

    Emotional: *Stable* emotionally. Is calm and relaxed. Warm, caring and giving. Has integrity. Is a moral person. Respects other people's opinions and doesn't get hysterical if different from hers.

    Mental: Smart and competent in own area that is different from mine. I want to respect my mate in terms of intelligence without us having to compete in an area of expertise. I want us to be complementary, like in a team, and not trying to one-up each other or prove who is the smartest.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Splittet View Post
    ... people tend to become a lot prettier if I am attracted to their personality. I seem to be especially attracted to brunettes.

    Emotional: Not annoyingly emotionally needy.

    Mental: Creative and intelligent. Appreciation of my intellect. Able to discuss anything.
    Edited to fit me. (I'm lazy, what can I say?)

    I love people who can feel passion or be idealistic... but not when they become emotionally needy and demanding or imposing -- I want to run as soon as someone seems clingy or dependent.
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