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    Member Hypomanic's Avatar
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    Physical: Prep school attire, clean cut, not too good looking but clear complexion. Taller than me.

    Emotional: In love with me... doesn't get offended by my argumentative nature, respectful, kind, not emo. Good relationship with family.

    Mental: VERY intelligent, VERY good grades, highly regarded. Nerdy, if you will. Mentally healthy/stable. Similar goals/values/thinking to mine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PinkPiranha View Post
    I've learnt a new word!

    Glad to oblige!

    But honestly, I just don't get other NTs reliance on physical appearance. I thought perhaps it was because there's a preponderance of men here, but the women seem just as fussy. I'd always assumed that my ability to love anyone as long as there is a 'meeting of minds' thing was to do with being INTJ. Now it seems that most of us demand the whole barrel, and I'm not typical at all.

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    You're not typical, Fiona. And that's a special thing too I have to say, I never thought I was particular on attraction, but I suppose I am! I can cop to that.

    (And I'm still trying to find a way to casually slip your fine word into a sentence)
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    Physical: Healthy.
    Emotional: Fairly stable NF female-ish. Not lifeless or robotic, but not dramatically unstable.
    Mental: "Smart enough." Preferably able to entertain some of my ideas without gazing off too far, and at least able to throw around and discuss some of her own.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fiona View Post
    Glad to oblige!

    But honestly, I just don't get other NTs reliance on physical appearance. I thought perhaps it was because there's a preponderance of men here, but the women seem just as fussy. I'd always assumed that my ability to love anyone as long as there is a 'meeting of minds' thing was to do with being INTJ. Now it seems that most of us demand the whole barrel, and I'm not typical at all.
    Healthy, physically attractive, major-defect-lacking people are going to be producing better offspring more often than people who aren't these three?
    *You don't have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.
    *Faith is the art of holding on to things your reason once accepted, despite your changing moods.
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    Quote Originally Posted by aelan View Post
    hmm.

    physical: X-factor. It is an overall package thing.

    Ain't it just?

    I would say that integrity and intellectual curiosity are tantamount - those absolutely have to be present in order for someone to even be attractive in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fiona View Post
    Glad to oblige!

    But honestly, I just don't get other NTs reliance on physical appearance. I thought perhaps it was because there's a preponderance of men here, but the women seem just as fussy. I'd always assumed that my ability to love anyone as long as there is a 'meeting of minds' thing was to do with being INTJ. Now it seems that most of us demand the whole barrel, and I'm not typical at all.
    Then I'm not either. I was just being flippant saying yes I'd prefer a physical partner as opposed to an incorporeal one, but really physical stuff is COMPLETELY irrelevant to me. I mean, literally. Well - unless they really stink, but that's about all. In fact, I find people who are too well groomed something of a turn-off.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maverick View Post
    Physical: Good looking. Good hygiene and not overweight.

    Emotional: *Stable* emotionally. Is calm and relaxed. Warm, caring and giving. Has integrity. Is a moral person. Respects other people's opinions and doesn't get hysterical if different from hers. Can understand that I can love someone w/o becoming gooey over it all the time.

    Mental: Smart and competent in own area that is different from mine. I want to respect my mate in terms of intelligence without us having to compete in an area of expertise. I want us to be complementary, like in a team, and not trying to one-up each other or prove who is the smartest.
    just copied one i found was similar enough.

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    Physical - Has her own style and is confident.

    Emotional - Forgiving and independent.

    Mental - Has her own mind and knows it.

    Fading violets need not apply
    Well actually Lori would remind that no one need apply but I always enjoyed reading the applications (like I get stacks) so we'll ignore her
    Isn't it time for a colourful metaphor?

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    Quote Originally Posted by substitute View Post
    Then I'm not either. I was just being flippant saying yes I'd prefer a physical partner as opposed to an incorporeal one, but really physical stuff is COMPLETELY irrelevant to me. I mean, literally. Well - unless they really stink, but that's about all. In fact, I find people who are too well groomed something of a turn-off.

    Aw c'mon! Stinky people need the ENTP love too!
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