I can relate to some of your posts.
Things that relax me:
just chilling with friends while having a beer and talking about random arbitrary crap, I must do this at least once a week.
when I'm really stressed I like to play either fifa or C&C kanes wrath on my pc, that really calms me down.
I like the draw of the mountains, I like being high and deep in the mountains far away from any signs of civilization.
I like nature and animals, although I don't have any pets atm
I like traveling, preferably out of the country to some destination I've never been before.
While I like nature, I also enjoy the buzzing city life from time to time depending on my moods.
reading something interesting\profound
sitting in the dark listening to some lounge\chill out music.
going for a run
just thinking and coming up with new insights regarding everyday things, people in my life or people in general, society etc.
simple pleasures are the best