I was wondering what experiences other male INTPs have had in relationships with other female NTs, specifically those with the same hobbies/interests/careers.
(Yes, I know we generally have similar hobbies/interests/careers, but there are differences... so I'm specifying that we have hobbies/interests/careers in which we can work together)
I know that much research says that NTs and NFs make the best partners (and, conversely, SPs and SJs) because of their similar abstract thinking but opposite tool usage; but, in the college dating/relationship scene, I personally find idealists to be too... well... Idealist-ist. (there just is no right word for that!) They drive me absolutely crazy. I know that mature Idealists are much better, but this doesn't help in college.
But, back to the topic: I'd appreciate advice/anecdotes about INTP relationships with other NTs and how they turned out.
(Also: where do you find NT girls? Feel free to answer the infinitely easier question above first.)