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    Quote Originally Posted by HotpinkHeatwave View Post
    I'm nice, and I'm very well liked.
    well aren't you just special.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HotpinkHeatwave View Post
    I'm nice, and I'm very well liked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qre:us View Post
    - show him a completely novel world that's a bit zany
    - pick up on the little things he does, as he speaks less, does a whole lot more, and be original in your response to show that you 'got it' (by catering to his particulars, that are unique to him...like remember something he mentioned offhand he really liked)
    - appreciate the oddball sarcasm and throw a few back
    - you may not know it, but once he, in his mind, has gotten signs that you guys can have serious potential....he's off dreaming ("planning") of how you guys will be down the road, years later.....if he lets some of these visions slip, almost casually (to test how it's received), don't shy away from it, if you're ready and willing to go there. If he sees you retreating, he'll be once bitten, twice shy
    - be spontaneous, adventurous...he's secretly wanting you to drag him out of his shell a bit
    ^ What she said.

    ENFP's in silly mode.

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    1. asexuality

    or...

    2. really freaky esoteric fetishistic shit that would be banned from 4chan

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lurker View Post
    really freaky esoteric fetishistic shit that would be banned from 4chan
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lurker View Post
    1. asexuality

    or...

    2. really freaky esoteric fetishistic shit that would be banned from 4chan
    Quote Originally Posted by lamp View Post
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    Edit: Dom, sub, or otherwise? Otherwise is probably more P than J, though...
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    IMO, the biggest thing is that you have to engage them on an intellectual level. My SO got nerdy with me, laughed at my nerdy jokes (you don't have to laugh but if I don't have to s-l-o-w things down for you, you're good). Don't talk about something you don't know squat about like you know what you're talking about, seriously. Just, Don't. Don't talk about money (like how much you have) unless it's in the context of the markets or something interesting you learned about the Fed. Don't dish out emotions for awhile. A simple, I'm smitten with you or I'm interested in you or I'm attracted to you is enough. Got it, moving on with the convo... Totally agree with notice something about me (mine remembered my favorite flower that I mentioned to another friend over a year prior... I jumped him for that one). Having a convo that you don't know much about and saying 'I wish I knew more about that' and then actually looking it up and saying 'hey, I was reading about blah... and ...' is a good move. You don't have to be interested in EVERYTHING I'm interested in but if I say something that strikes you, don't be too lazy to look into it. Oh and most important thing of all, have your own life. Have something interesting you do or want to do or some passion. Then want to talk about it (not all the time) but be able to explain something about it because I want to know about you or I don't really want you. Ya know?

    I'm a very well educated lover, a big turn on is someone who says 'I was reading about this move in bed... lets try it' I don't want to know that you learned it from an ex... always read about it... not a porn... reading. I'm very direct with those things... I'd like to hear 'I think this would make you feel good and when I have you graveling (playful, don't power trip on me) you can return the favor by this' direct, I know what you want, I can enjoy myself... share... check check check. Done. :-) Not exactly THAT robotic but more open and less OMGWHATAMISUPPOSEDTOBEDOINGHERE thought provoking.

    Even when I know what to do, the social awkward kicks in. I have never had a partner who didn't pursue, I don't notice people very often otherwise. I do usually say (very openly) Hey, you're hot. Or I really like you. Then they can chase or be complimented and life moves on.

    Guys are different but clear signals are best. I don't do hints. I may be able to draw conclusions for weird technical reading but cannot do the same from hint dropping.

    Hope that helps...some?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Qre:us View Post
    - show him a completely novel world that's a bit zany
    - pick up on the little things he does, as he speaks less, does a whole lot more, and be original in your response to show that you 'got it' (by catering to his particulars, that are unique to him...like remember something he mentioned offhand he really liked)
    - don't back away from going toe-to-toe in your views, and listen openly to his
    - appreciate the oddball sarcasm and throw a few back
    - you may not know it, but once he, in his mind, has gotten signs that you guys can have serious potential....he's off dreaming ("planning") of how you guys will be down the road, years later.....if he lets some of these visions slip, almost casually (to test how it's received), don't shy away from it, if you're ready and willing to go there. If he sees you retreating, he'll be once bitten, twice shy
    - be spontaneous, adventurous...he's secretly wanting you to drag him out of his shell a bit
    This is a very good answer. Much better than that ENTP robot talking noise above.

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    Quote Originally Posted by highlander29 View Post
    This is a very good answer. Much better than that ENTP robot talking noise above.

    She's an ENTP too.
    I have a vagina.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Two Point Two View Post
    A Fi dom is theoretically in a very good position to appeal to an INTJ, who has tertiary Fi and is therefore childlike and innocent in exactly the function that most defines your identity.
    Only as much as with ENTP + ENFJ dynamic. I will let someone else tell the horror stories.

    I recommend not being anything other than yourself.
    All of the action advice in this thread is useless and offtopic for the above reason. If anything INTJ descriptions are okay.

    One can NOT be oneself and simultaneously be taking directions! FFSWTFU!

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