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    Nips away your dignity Fluffywolf's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by tinkerbell View Post
    Yea I get the whole overly passionate, intense, over energetic... the last bit mainly at work... but stuff needs doing...

    Ensuring you are not over streached if you can.... don't take on too much.

    Right now I'm trying to work on defensiveness... to varing sucesses, not good at establishing boundaries working on that to help with the defensiveness
    Learn from Buddha!

    Buddha, the boundary establisher.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    Learn from Buddha!

    Buddha, the boundary establisher.
    And....? :s

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    I relate, all too well. I've been accused of being pissed, angry, grumpy or any other negative emotional state when I'm just, talking, responding ect. By people who know me, like family. It's extremely tiresome. I hate that I get interrupted or what I'm saying doesn't stick, simply because I sounded angry - then I'll have to explain myself and repeat what I was saying. Fucking annoying!

    I mean, even if I don't really care about the issue, I get intrigued by challenging the issue, if that makes sense. And I guess maybe people feel like I'm challenging them instead?

    I constantly get the "shhyyy" when I talk about something I think is interesting. I don't even notice getting into this "intense mode", I'm loud and I'm fast, what can I say. That's why I'm so glad I have this INTP friend in my life, cause I can just let loose and don't think about how I come across or remember to hold back my excitement, not anger. He doesn't get offended, or think that I'm offended.

    I'm very short with words and I usually walk away when I am angry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinkerbell View Post
    And....? :s
    I see your problem.
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    I can't remember the last time I was asked to calm down

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fluffywolf View Post
    I see your problem.
    sorry I didn't get your buddist point, you ahve to agree, a bit left of centre/obtuse... I don't see how it relates to boundaries..

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    ENFJ man tends to grab ahold of my head and say SLOW...DOWN when my mouth moves faster than his brain can process. There's just a lot going on between my brain and mouth sometimes.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Actually pretty much everbody would like that it is much easier to get me excited.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Memphis View Post
    I constantly get the "shhyyy" when I talk about something I think is interesting. I don't even notice getting into this "intense mode", I'm loud and I'm fast, what can I say. That's why I'm so glad I have this INTP friend in my life, cause I can just let loose and don't think about how I come across or remember to hold back my excitement, not anger. He doesn't get offended, or think that I'm offended.
    Yeah, I totally relate. It would be hard for me to sort of censor my behavior to some extent because I frankly don't even realize when I'm transitioning from normal to scary.

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