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    I really consider type discussions to arbitrary and pointless but here goes.

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    It's just an emotional reaction. I know you're pissed but it's not going to get you anywhere to knock this guy's face in. It serves no real purpose. So don't do it.

    Get some exercise, do something to back away from it for a while, and you'll come back a little more level headed.

    Gone on a run lately? Shoot some hoops?
    Don't know how much it'll bend til it breaks.

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    Good advice, Boo. *nods* Work off that bad energy.

    Johnathon, listen. I'm not a jealous person, so if ANYTHING makes me feel jealous, or is even remotely pushing me in that direction, I back up off of it HARD and don't stop backing up until I've regained my composure and ability to analyze the situation. Either there's something internally wrong (meaning whatever the object/person is triggering is exclusively me and I need to regain my balance) or I'm being "handled" (meaning something is going on meant to control me or excite a reaction from me by means of extortion).

    I don't play those games with people and I don't tolerate it directed at me. There was a guy I'd formerly dated and he slept with another girl, as he told me later, to make me jealous. Not only did it NOT make me jealous, it made me understand that I could never fully trust him if he'd try to hurt me or manipulate me that way.

    Jealousy arises when there's something you *really* want but feel unsure of retaining or getting in the first place. What is it about this girl that is so worth retaining that you'd allow yourself to descend into this level of negativity?
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    Think for a moment about the other guy's part in this. He dated a girl a year ago, has some stuff in common with her, and is still friends with her. He made a joke about you, but it doesn't seem to have been a particularly cruel one - the same kind of joke is made between friends all the time.

    Is there anything in that which goes anywhere near close to justifying feelings of head smashing?

    Once you've identified that the way you're feeling is out of synch with what the actual situation justifies, it's easier to think about how to approach dealing with them. Talking to her about how you're feeling and about her relationship with this person might help - she may be able to reassure you that they really are just friends. But the first step really is to accept that the issue isn't in the situation itself; it's in your response to the situation - and that is something that's in very large part in your power to control.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    Good advice, Boo. *nods* Work off that bad energy.

    Johnathon, listen. I'm not a jealous person, so if ANYTHING makes me feel jealous, or is even remotely pushing me in that direction, I back up off of it HARD and don't stop backing up until I've regained my composure and ability to analyze the situation.
    *a voice is heard coming out of the basement*
    "leet me outt, I wasn't really leaving you, it was a joke !"
    "pleaseee"
    "ohh godd, not the rats again" *munching sounds, screams*
    Expression of the post modern paradox : "For the love of god, religions are so full of shit"

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    Quote Originally Posted by EcK View Post
    *a voice is heard coming out of the basement*
    "leet me outt, I wasn't really leaving you, it was a joke !"
    "pleaseee"
    "ohh godd, not the rats again" *munching sounds, screams*
    "You'll learn your lesson, you cowardly indecorous fool! I have you in my Volcano Lair Detention Center and Organic Co-Op/Daycare! You'll soon wrathfully feel the wrath of my wrathfulnesses!!"

    A metal creak is heard followed by a floor-shaking rumble. The shrieks of the hostage increased as doom approached. Suddenly...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post
    "You'll learn your lesson, you cowardly indecorous fool! I have you in my Volcano Lair Detention Center and Organic Co-Op/Daycare! You'll soon wrathfully feel the wrath of my wrathfulnesses!!"

    A metal creak is heard followed by a floor-shaking rumble. The shrieks of the hostage increased as doom approached. Suddenly...



    I'm succumbing to your charms.
    I have a vagina.


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    yes blah took the rainbow hit!

    *counter attacks with peacock feather*
    Expression of the post modern paradox : "For the love of god, religions are so full of shit"

    Theory is always superseded by Fact...
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlahBlahNounBlah View Post
    I'm succumbing to your charms.


    Shampahnyuh?!

    Quote Originally Posted by EcK View Post
    yes blah took the rainbow hit!

    *counter attacks with peacock feather*
    See. Rubbing feathers on me. You can hardly control yourself. How French!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Domino View Post

    See. Rubbing feathers on me. You can hardly control yourself. How French!
    Is it one of these things when you have a dream, then you wake up and you think it's a real memory ?!!!
    *gets alot of very french people look at you like you just said something obviously wrong and distasteful*

    *somebody throws a tomatoe at you*
    Expression of the post modern paradox : "For the love of god, religions are so full of shit"

    Theory is always superseded by Fact...
    ... In theory.

    “I’d hate to die twice. It’s so boring.”
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    "Great is the human who has not lost his childlike heart."
    Mencius (Meng-Tse), 4th century BCE

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