1) I feel (yes, feel) my feelings aren't important enough to annoy other people with them. I won't pour out my heart to you, because when I feel bad that's my problem and not yours. Unless I know you very well and want your help with analyzing my feelings. You'll be welcome if you want my help. That way, the bad feelings will get out of the way and won't annoy more people.
Good feelings, on the other hand, will be expressed easily!
2) Clear communication is worth millions more than tact. Even to the point of rudeness. I can't understand hinting myself. I'm not going to try and search meaning behind your actions. If you're mad at me, just say so and say why, such that I can make amends. I will do the same to you.
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I'm female. I just can't draw women
think my Dad is a T (ISTJ I think) he is inappropriate and offensive all the time but when he should be offensive (when being pestered by telemarketers etc.) all of a sudden he is Mr Politeness, what's the deal with that?
Oh my god. You just described my roommate.
Today she was claiming it is rude to not give someone your number when you don't want to go out with them.
I have feelings, but I don't think that something is ____ just because I feel that way about it. Cognitive associations are formed throughout a person's life that don't reflect the full picture of reality.
I don't discount my feelings, but I usually don't think they're enough to justify any major decision.
When I'm buying music or deciding what to have for dinner, I don't use much thinking (unless I'm considering the price or cholesterol content).