Being an ENTP, I have realized that usually my ''soul-friends'' are only male, I still got pretty many female friends, but I don't take them so seriously. I mean, I just don't trust females, I still respect their opinion, but I don't listen to their advice and don't talk with them about my feelings as much as I do with my male friends and, yes, being honest, female friends annoy me way more often than my male ones. So here's the problem:
The bad thing about male friends is that, sometimes, as my personal experience shows (I'm still pretty young) that sooner or later at least one of them will try to have some kind of sexual contact or even develop it into a romantic relationship. I, somehow, try to avoid it, but it always happens and only one of those guys are still my friend, even though I said no. The others, who I've refused ran away or if I even agreed, i guess, they start to think that there's smth more than a friendship between us, but IMO there isn't and I don't really like hurting my friends, so it's my turn to run away . At the same time, I know a perfect example, a guy and a girl of my age, who are I would say really good friends (absolutely not a couple), they've their own girlfriends and boyfriends, but at the same time they've had sex. I guess it's okay until they don't have a date, but what if they do? I mean, it's good to have a friend, but that's still cheating to your date.
What is your opinion about male and female ''only friends'' kind of relationship and why and do you try to avoid that?
Especially, I would like to read male opinions, because, I guess there's some logical kind of part missing in my understanding about men thoughts of all this.