Vie
Giggity
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2010
- Messages
- 792
- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
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- 8
I agree, you should just ask her -- we need no time to cool off. As stated above, and perhaps I speak for myself here, but I make my decision and I stick with it.
I was in a serious relationship for two and half years with a guy who broke up with me without giving me a clear answer. I'm still not over it and it has been two years. I have begun to emotional detach myself with other relationships and rarely let someone in -- therefore, it is far easier when I give up on the relationship. When that inevitably happens, I walk away without EVER looking back. I read the person, and if I see they are looking to chop the ax on me (if you will), I quickly lose all investment and do it first. I suppose I'm rude like that.
I won't seek contact with someone who I've been with before UNLESS I need them for something, saw them recently in an obscure place, or in case of "the one who got away."
She knows what she wants and has known for some time, I'm sure.
I was in a serious relationship for two and half years with a guy who broke up with me without giving me a clear answer. I'm still not over it and it has been two years. I have begun to emotional detach myself with other relationships and rarely let someone in -- therefore, it is far easier when I give up on the relationship. When that inevitably happens, I walk away without EVER looking back. I read the person, and if I see they are looking to chop the ax on me (if you will), I quickly lose all investment and do it first. I suppose I'm rude like that.
I won't seek contact with someone who I've been with before UNLESS I need them for something, saw them recently in an obscure place, or in case
She knows what she wants and has known for some time, I'm sure.