Ever felt you could be nice by tapping into your Fe and offering advice by asking a friend what's wrong? I have; I only do it when I feel comfortable with sharing such words with a person,
but I'm almost insulted when I'm turned down with a vague answer like, "nothing" or "I don't know" or "just... a lot of things." Sure, they don't want to talk about it- but why not just say that? It puts me at square one with someone immediately. To me it's as if they're saying, "I don't want your advice, just your pity," which I'm not really willing to give.
p.s. - this semi-rant is directed at an infp.