I don't like asking for help. I don't really like openly asking for advice.
Alas, measures call for it.
INTJs, how the hell do you get motivated?
My INTJ emotional attachment has made a very stupid decision of late, all because he did not want to write a ballad. He has absolutely no academic motivation, and I don't want him to screw up his life. It endangers his seeing me, and I, being selfish, don't want that. I want to be able to see him. I get to see him maybe...once every two weeks. He has lied to me on several occasions, and this time has lied by omission. I don't like being lied to (who does?)
I just can't figure out what to do. I don't want to lecture him on how irrational this is (I hate lectures. I hate being lectured). But I want this out, if not for his sake, then for my own selfish desires.
p.s. I can't let him self destruct while I sit back and watch.