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    Default INTJ socialite!

    So who has done it?

    I used to despise people in general until I realized the benefit of having friends (short-term fun, bouncing off schemes to get another perspective - thereby feeding our secondary function extraverted thinking...).... However I get a little sick of people after a little while. They are an odd bunch, people. Weirdly enough we are somehow odd?... Funny, I just reasoned that most were mentally deficient.
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    INTJs who socialize and like people are 50x more pleasant to be around.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    INTJs who socialize and like people are 50x more pleasant to be around.
    Yup, INTJ that know when to keep their stupid comments to them selves are actually pretty nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Contemptus View Post
    So who has done it?

    I used to despise people in general until I realized the benefit of having friends (short-term fun, bouncing off schemes to get another perspective - thereby feeding our secondary function extraverted thinking...).... However I get a little sick of people after a little while. They are an odd bunch, people. Weirdly enough we are somehow odd?... Funny, I just reasoned that most were mentally deficient.
    No I don't think any INTJ's are mentally deficient simply because they are INTJ's. As we get older I think we see the benefits of having some sort of social network/friends/people you hang out with or whatever you want to call it. Yes people still exhaust me at a point and no I can't socialize like my ENFJ can but I don't think I'm bad at it and it opens up possibility that I wouldn't have if I remained relatively isolated.
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Contemptus View Post
    So who has done it?

    I used to despise people in general until I realized the benefit of having friends (short-term fun, bouncing off schemes to get another perspective - thereby feeding our secondary function extraverted thinking...).... However I get a little sick of people after a little while. They are an odd bunch, people. Weirdly enough we are somehow odd?... Funny, I just reasoned that most were mentally deficient.
    I try.

    I still find it a bit confusing as to how to proceed once I've opened someone up to the idea of becoming a friend.

    As far as socializing and being friendly though, yeah, I do that.
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    INTJs who learn to be very sociable are my favourite people to be around. They are amazing.

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    All I got from this is that reason we socialise is to use people. Whether we appear pleasant or not depends on who we are socialising with. We are very gallant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ragingkatsuki View Post
    All I got from this is that reason we socialise is to use people.
    You could make the same argument for anyone, though. If you feel compelled to socialize, you are socializing to feed your compulsion. If socializing makes you happy, you're doing it to improve your own happiness etc.

    I think I'm a relatively social INTJ, though.
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    than to serve and obey them. - David Hume

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    My brother and mother are both ENFJs... so I'm probably more sociable than the average INTJ. As of now, people love being around me and I have a lot acquaintances. I was/am pretty loud and well known when it comes to school/work. Although, I'm sure that everyone is convinced that I'm crazy... I probably come off as an ENTP, but after an hour or two I do get tired of being around people.

    I do spend a lot of time with my brother or mother so I've learned how appear more outgoing and outspoken, etc...
    Between that cigarillo and sticking my finger down my throat to see if I could DT, I feel like puking RN.

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    World domination can't be done alone.

    Keep that in mind.
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