Ironically, I don't agree all the way with this:
It's true though, I get labeled a whole lot by being a player, smooth, male prostitute, fabio, moviestar playboy etc. The girls have said it to me many times, and that kinda worked against me. Mainly because they think I'm going to be deceitful or malicious; that is far from me, but I know it's the whole association with being percieved as a player. And by the way, it's also true; I think a lot about what I say and how it's being perceived. I want to get my message across clear and direct when I like somebody. I walk away when the intentional ambiguity game playing is running, but after the intentions are passed and known that's when I usually leave things light-hearted and fun.