I'd like to answer on Matthew's question in green: "If a deaf INFP falls into the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?"
Yes. A sound is a wave consisting of moving air molecules. Doesn't matter if there is someone able to measure it or not.
Reality lasts even if nobody believes in it.
PS. It would be nice to make this into a thread similar to 'ask an ESTJ'. However, as I'm not an ESTJ, I'll probably not as consistent and reliable. However, if all ENTPs on this forum help out, I'm quite confident the mean of our answers would be quite reliable.
Let's strive to ESTJ standards! (and fail, of course, but that doesn't make the intention worthless)