I'm dating I would say my third INTP now.
I noticed that every time I meet one, they seem really cool, calm, and collected. Strong and not easily worked up.
I noticed once you start to become more emotionally involved, they are like emotional train wrecks all of a sudden. And i'm always thrown into the position of being the steady, reasonable one.
Clingy, whiney, untrusting at times. Extremely affectionate. Almost feminine. I don't get it. I usually think at that point maybe I mistyped them.
But I didn't. (One of them actually tested for a class.)
What is this all about, INTPs?
What do I do about it?