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    Quote Originally Posted by carlsonp View Post
    Thanks all for the thoughtful posts. This forum is certainly illuminating.

    Perhaps the practical advice has been limited since conclusions were likely made by the first few pages. Stating those conclusions are another matter and often unhelpful (in the INTP frame, anyway, poll-taking is rarely done). I repeat others, however, in that immaturity seems to be an issue and that that type of manipulation should be a major red flag. Also, the idea that we can be "changed" speaks of inexperience as well.

    I'm guessing that, if your contemplated SO is an INTP, friendship won't likely work. Personally, friendships with other INTPs are incredible as we can explode on one another with instant depth and understanding, go back to our solitude, and pick up right where we left off later. In relationships with higher sensing and feeling functions, however, it takes so much energy and I take all the barrage of data so seriously, that it just wears me out. It only works if I'm all-in or very distant (mild acquaintance).

    ...I just read the final few pages and realized it has come to the inevitable.

    Actually, we ended up working things out in our favor . We're quite happy friends, now! Back to the original friendship that it started with, thank goodness.
    06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
    06/13 10:51:08 shortnsweet: no you!!
    06/13 10:51:12 shortnsweet: go do your things and my things too!
    06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
    06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
    06/13 10:51:57 shortnsweet: (cries)
    06/13 10:52:19 RiftsWRX: You two are like furbies stuck in a shoe box

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    I'm beginning to wonder...

    Should all INTP men have "You've already gone too far" tattooed onto their penises?
    Ti = 19 [][][][][][][][][][][][][][][][][][][]
    Te = 16[][][][][][][][][][][][][][][][]
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    Man got to sit and wonder why, why, why;
    Tiger got to sleep, bird got to land;
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    Quote Originally Posted by Blank View Post
    I'm beginning to wonder...

    Should all INTP men have "You've already gone too far" tattooed onto their penises?
    My penis tat says "PWNED BY MACGUFFIN".

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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    I just wish there was a way that I could make them feel more secure.
    You could try getting him a Hadron Particle Collider for him birthday?
    That would definitely make him relax the f*** up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by astroninja View Post
    You could try getting him a Hadron Particle Collider for him birthday?
    That would definitely make him relax the f*** up.
    Lol! why didn't I think of that??
    06/13 10:51:03 five sounds: you!!!
    06/13 10:51:08 shortnsweet: no you!!
    06/13 10:51:12 shortnsweet: go do your things and my things too!
    06/13 10:51:23 five sounds: oh hell naw
    06/13 10:51:55 shortnsweet: !!!!
    06/13 10:51:57 shortnsweet: (cries)
    06/13 10:52:19 RiftsWRX: You two are like furbies stuck in a shoe box

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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    Lol! why didn't I think of that??
    Maybe you were too busy trying to pry his clingy fingers from your arm?

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    so you like him because he is fun and makes YOU feel special---not great declarations from an intp point of view--- and you are not sure you want a substantive relationship. how does anlook emotional neophyte feel secure enough to cope with difficult emotional information in that setting? he is going to act insecure and defensive until you can show him that he has unique value and you can provide consistent behavior that evidences your investment in him not a particular type of relationship.

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    Yeah being an INTP myself I can relate we REALLY struggle when it comes to the opposite sex but once we get "it" we become some of the most calculating , unemotional players of all 16 types, most pickup artist or hardcore players are in fact INTP

    14-19 adolescence is usually lived in our own heads afraid of intimacy most of us never have girlfriends or sex in high-school

    21-27 Young adulthood is us getting used to approaching women and having relationships , remember the typical male of other types has at least 5-7 yrs on us when dealing with the opposite sex, so we're just learning how to be in relationships. We usually use our significant others as a sponge for emotions we otherwise would never show on a day to day basis, once we finally are allowed to express those suppressed feelings of love, it's often too much for women to bare, and when we're not irrationally expressing ourselves. we spend the other part of our relationship doubting ourselves and over thinking everything which usually drives a woman nuts, so after a couple bad relationships and experiences with women we start to over analyze ourselves and go into a bitter self seclusion from women all together.

    late 20's -early 30's are when INTP usually put everything together, we either seek help for our ineptitude with dealing with the opposite sex, or our obsession with improving and perfecting every area of our lives drives us until we not only understand the opposite sex but we become masters of the game. That cool, collective, quirky yet emotionally detached INTP, will remain that way throughout the relationship because he now knows the ramifications of inappropriately spilling over his emotions too soon, as he knows it will throw women off guard and turn them off, it'll be extremely hard to get him to commit or get him in a frame of mind where he isn't control , as here the INTP has mastered himself but has also mastered how to be alone, we get so used to it that , relationships always come secondary at this point he has his mind made up about how he's going to live his life, it might include you and it may not but he could care less, as tomorrow he'll just build attraction with another woman. The game becomes his chess board and from here on every woman is just a pawn, nobody struggles yet succeeds with women quite like an INTP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JLM View Post
    Yeah being an INTP myself I can relate we REALLY struggle when it comes to the opposite sex but once we get "it" we become some of the most calculating , unemotional players of all 16 types, most pickup artist or hardcore players are in fact INTP

    14-19 adolescence is usually lived in our own heads afraid of intimacy most of us never have girlfriends or sex in high-school

    21-27 Young adulthood is us getting used to approaching women and having relationships , remember the typical male of other types has at least 5-7 yrs on us when dealing with the opposite sex, so we're just learning how to be in relationships. We usually use our significant others as a sponge for emotions we otherwise would never show on a day to day basis, once we finally are allowed to express those suppressed feelings of love, it's often too much for women to bare, and when we're not irrationally expressing ourselves. we spend the other part of our relationship doubting ourselves and over thinking everything which usually drives a woman nuts, so after a couple bad relationships and experiences with women we start to over analyze ourselves and go into a bitter self seclusion from women all together.

    late 20's -early 30's are when INTP usually put everything together, we either seek help for our ineptitude with dealing with the opposite sex, or our obsession with improving and perfecting every area of our lives drives us until we not only understand the opposite sex but we become masters of the game. That cool, collective, quirky yet emotionally detached INTP, will remain that way throughout the relationship because he now knows the ramifications of inappropriately spilling over his emotions too soon, as he knows it will throw women off guard and turn them off, it'll be extremely hard to get him to commit or get him in a frame of mind where he isn't control , as here the INTP has mastered himself but has also mastered how to be alone, we get so used to it that , relationships always come secondary at this point he has his mind made up about how he's going to live his life, it might include you and it may not but he could care less, as tomorrow he'll just build attraction with another woman. The game becomes his chess board and from here on every woman is just a pawn, nobody struggles yet succeeds with women quite like an INTP.



    Not every INTP remains an emotionally stunted 'tard preying on the stupidest and most gullible of the opposite sex.

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